this applies to men as well, except with a mother figure
someone to love them unconditionally, cater to their needs, treat them with tenderness, scold them non threateningly, pat/stroke them lovingly as an adult would a child, and almost treat them like a kid
is this true?They say in a serious relationship, women are interested in a father figure they can screw?
If you are a psychoanalyst
Otherwise, noThey say in a serious relationship, women are interested in a father figure they can screw?
';They'; have been too influenced by Freud. This is not true.
We do look for someone familliar to a male role model (which will often include your father, amongst others), and we do want a caring, nurturing person, but such traits are not necessarily the sole remit of parental figures. We do not expect to be treated like a child mostly in relationships, what most of them are about is mutual respect. Some people don't even want tenderness in their relationships; it takes all kinds...
Relationships are far more complicated and varied than this and it is far from true that everyone ends up witha father/mother figure. (For a start, how would that even work? How could you act as a mother to a person you percieve as a father figure? The interaction model is all wrong.)
The interaction model (slightly better supported) suggests in relationships of all kinds we can take the roles of adult, child or parent. And relationships amongst adults, not surprisingly, function best as Adult-Adult, not Parent-Child. Parent-Child might work for some, but by no means all.
Very much like it. Just add some other qualities to complete the father figure, like being handsome, having a good sexual appetite %26amp; skills, etc. :) You see, it's harder being the lover than the father :)
Women are biologically programmed to want a mate that will support their offspring- financial stability, commitment, etc..
Men are biologically programmed to look for a nice rack.
i think so...
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